My father's family tree. My father K.P.S.Nair belongs to ancient tharavad of koyikkal family,Patton.He has no roots in poonjar,it is his oblivion.His father was a retired Tahsildar of nedumangaudu.Although he was promoted to the post of deputy collector,he was unwilling to accept it because his income would be then less if he transferred to some other district.But he had worked in many districts.When he was working in nedumangaud, he met the then land commissioner sir.c.p.gopala panikker. He knew my father's younger brother Raveendran Nayar right from the time he was studying for his bachelor's in english literature.After passing M.A.English Raveendran also worked in Ayyappa College,Nagarkovil,Tamil Nadu,later he became a journalist,as he humbly says.My father's elder brother Ramachandran Nair got his first appointment as secretariat assistant and later in the Kerala police department.He married a bank officer who is a Diwan peshkar' s great granddaughter' s daughter.My father also had two sisters.Both of them are no more.Padmini has three sons and one daughter all of them are married.Eldest sister, Sukumari, died very early,I could not remember when it happened. Raveendran Nayar has two children Kiran.R and Parvathy Panikker.It was Ravi chittappan who had recommended for me to an admission in Nirmala Bhavan English Medium School.I was not that studious and least interested in studies due to weakness.Later when I joined Mar Ivanios College and Kerala University centre I choose economics as my subject. In mar ivanios,college,there is a secret place known as " panchara mukku" lovers corner where those who are willing to have love affair come and meet.It was the college staff who had allowed them to do so, thinking that others won't be irritated.Many of the ex- mar ivanios students had by now married twice.Some of them belonged to my neighborhood area.I never realised that they had full contacts and influence with my father.Not just them,but my post graduation juniors in the department of economics, University centre,kariavattom.My father kept everything a secret from me.I don't know why.I never had any right to enquire about my future' s safety.I always thought that marriage was arranged parents and they had full rights over it.But now I have deep regrets over my parents cheating me.They are always helping my neighbours secretly.If so,why should I take care of them, when they get old.
If they wish they may join panchara mukku...with the permission of college authorities
